Have you ever been amazed at the Lord’s work in another’s life? Here at the end of the year, as folks are making and sometimes sharing their new year’s resolutions (usually broken by February), two young moms shared their reflections over this past year of how God was moving in their lives. These two moms testified in their email to us this week, they have grown closer to God through fellowship with other Believers, in our little mom group, other Bible Studies and the worship services. Their individual struggles may not have diminished at all, but their hope in the God who loves them and their children has grown. Here’s a comment from each of them.
“Anger made me feel powerful but now I feel untouchable through prayer.”
“I am more mature in my faith and I’m striving to be the best mom to my kids.”
You may remember the story shared here on this blog that three years ago our church began a single mom’s ministry with a few mentor moms who listened to the Holy Spirit. He told the five of us to go upstairs to that vast room in our church and begin loving on some moms, expressing how much God loves them. So we did. There have been Wednesday nights when just a few women showed up for a light supper at six followed by a Bible Study. We had even heard of several moms who had attended our Sunday morning service and written a note to our staff asking about our group and have shown up, but then…..we didn’t see them anymore. Shallow commitment to church meetings and groups is the norm. It has not discouraged us in the least.
But these few comments from two of our precious young moms encourages our hearts deeply as it says to us that we are on the right path. Teaching our women to hope in God and Him alone.
Our mentor moms may not know the struggle of each of our single moms, as some of us have never journeyed that path. This week I received some texts from two other moms struggling over their former husband’s handling of their children versus their discipline approach. One honestly wrote: “this is the part of divorce that is just so hard.” Of course. So I stopped what I was doing and prayed for her, her children, and her ex-husband. This is “the faith” that is the stuff of living out the daily life – through prayer to our Lord, voicing that we are so powerless without Him. The struggle hasn’t gone away, but the hope has grown stronger. They are not as anxious.
Another mom had some extra money come her way after the sale of her home this fall. She texted me one day and said she felt led to bless some moms in our group for Christmas. She brought fun, self-indulgent, “I-really-don’t-have-to-have-this” gifts to four moms this season anonymously.
We cannot help but give praise to God alone -soli deo gloria. We do look forward to this next year with eager hearts to see what God will do in and through our ladies as they learn to walk close to Him daily.
“And you shall the love the Lord you God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your heart.” Deuteronomy 6:5
This year go out with joy and be led forth in His peace.